Reminder to self: Avoid going to dinner with couples on my own
Random thoughts of Bluey at Sunday, November 19, 2006
2:13 pm | Permalink
Last night, I went to dinner with 2 couples. We had arranged to meet for dinner entirely through emailing. In one email, friend X asked friend Y whether Y would be bringing her boyfriend (so that X's boyfriend won't be feeling awkward!). Friend Y replied and said "yes". At that point, I should have said, "Thanks for organising the dinner. But I really don't feel up to it. Why don't you guys go ahead without me". But I kept quiet and went along with their plan.
I knew that it was going to be awkward. Half an hour before I was supposed to leave the house, I nearly called up friend Y to say that I wasn't feeling well and that I won't be able to make it to dinner. But I went in the end.
During the dinner, awkward moments recorded as follows:
I ended up going home feeling slightly traumatised.
Excuses to use if I am asked to join them for dinner in the future:
I knew that it was going to be awkward. Half an hour before I was supposed to leave the house, I nearly called up friend Y to say that I wasn't feeling well and that I won't be able to make it to dinner. But I went in the end.
During the dinner, awkward moments recorded as follows:
- Couples talked to each other
- Couples shared their first experiences meeting their partners' family
What did I do to occupy myself during those awkward moments? I looked at paintings on the wall and took pictures of my food. See pictures below:
I ended up going home feeling slightly traumatised.
Excuses to use if I am asked to join them for dinner in the future:
- Sore throat
- Headache
- Not in town
- My goldfish (the one in my imagination) has died
- My flatmate is unwell ... need to stay at home
1 Thoughts of Others:
This Christmas, it's time to give gifts of social etiquette books to Friend X and Friend Y. Tsk tsk...